Claire nailed it with her comment, "...I am just wondering why someone would want to soften a baby's skin?..."
That's why I actually sharpened the image, not further softened it. I want to see some texture in the skin, some baby fuzz, etc.
I suspect that the reason some folks say they want to soften an image like this is not that they really want to soften it in the technical sense we mean, but rather, they want to do things like smooth out variations in hue and saturation (ie, blotchy skin) or smooth out the lighting, reduce local contrast, etc. but they don't know how to describe these effects, so they just lump them all into "softening".
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