First of all, your site promotion is severely lacking. Go to this site
http://www.submitexpress.com/linkpop/ and check the results; you have a score of 2.
My site however has a score of 23,000 and I have 1,500-2,500 visitors a day.
Why the difference?
a) What my site has to offer is more popular and is quite unique
b) I?ve done lots and lots of site promotion and I'm still doing it
People have to find your site and now they can?t. People go to Google and type ?Photography? and your page probably ends up on page 1,677,004 of Google.
Also because of your very low link popularity, search engines will rank you lower, which means that for example Photo.net will always end up much higher in the rankings than your site.
What kind of keywords you use or how search engine friendly your web site is only plays a minor role for a site like yours and those things will only have the most impact if your site is already ranked pretty high. You can have the best keywords and a highly optimized site for Google, yet you probably end up in position 1,543,455 instead of 1,677,004 and people still can't find you. Sorry, but that?s just the way it is.
Promote your site by affiliating with successful sites and submit your site to web directories that have Photography sections. This will always give you some traffic.
Also consider to redesign your site;
Some pictures are good, some are bad. The picture with the lady in the purple dress is not professional quality and should never be placed on the main page. I?m pretty sure that the family involved loves that shot, but I and many visitors like me have no emotional bond with this image and only look at the quality; unsharp, bad lighting, wedding dress overexposed, distracting background, face of lady in purple dress not visible, poor framing/composition, etc. Simply said; your main page should have a lot more ?wow!? factor if you know what I mean.
Text in capital letters is considered ?screaming? to a lot of people. Only use capital letters if the English language asks for it.
Pictures like these
http://www.boydbilbo.com/sitebuilder/images/lit_by_stained_glass_sm-429x515.jpg
http://www.boydbilbo.com/sitebuilder/images/br_and_son_copy2-312x428.jpg
? is what sells, yet you place them on a page with dozens of other shots which is distracting.
Redesign your galleries; use gallery navigation and show only one image at a time, so that the focus is on the image only. Now the galleries look a tad disorganized; b&w white pictures mixed with color photographs, different sizes, frames, techniques, alignments, borders, etc. There is simple too much going on each of these pages. Keep it simple; use thumbnails that open a single preview.
Also consider to redesign your site to make it compatible with 800x600 screen resolution.
But even if you consider to only support 1024x768, then make sure that all pages stay inside this resolution and avoid pages like this
http://boydbilbo.com/fineart.html where the visitors with 1024x768 still have to scroll sideways.
Don?t use animation and transition effect between pages; they might look cool, but in reality they just irritate your visitors. Potential customers care more about content and what you as a photographer have to offer.
Btw, if you want my honest opinion; if you want to be more successful with your Photography business (or services), then ignore the internet and focus on your local area and promote your business using the traditional methods.
A site like this (and that?s just the reality) will never get lots of visitors unless you extend it with alternative material like articles, resources, advice, forums, etc.
Also ask yourself the following question; what percentage of the people who are looking for a wedding photographer will use the internet to find one. Of course, it?s easy to find wedding photographers, but how many are living in their area? Most people will just grab the phone book, look around in their home town or ask others for advice.